Tuesday, 30 September 2008
Farewell Circles and the Management of Risk
And yet I couldn't help but feel that the Farewell Circle would be an unlikely part of programs in Australia, or at the very least it would not involve the staff, because one of the ways we have responded to abuse of young people in Australia (and in many other places I am sure) has been to make it socially unacceptable for adults, particularly males, to hug children. The intention of this is, of course, to protect our children and this is a sensible and reasonable thing for a society to do. But I wonder if the solution causes other problems for young people.
I believe there are similar dynamics at play in other areas of society and not just in Australia of course. In an attempt to protect our children against injury we increasingly focus on the elimination of risk. Maybe, despite the evidence about the dangers of a sedentary lifestyle, this leads us to prefer our children watch television or play computer games in the lounge room where we can keep them 'safe' rather than be out riding bikes or climbing trees in what we perceive to be the dangerous outdoors.
But at what cost to their healthy development into adulthood, to their levels of resilience and to their long term physical and mental health?
Next time you see an advertisement for household disinfectant look closely at what they are really saying - and they are mostly not being too subtle about it either - germs are bad, if you really love your family then you will use our product in copiuos quantities to kill all the germs in your house.
But apart from this being a fruitless exercise, what impact is this having on our immune systems? On the environment? Is it coincidental that the more sterile our lives become the more we see allergies emerge?
I don't think there are simplistic answers to any of these questions. I am not advocating that we all just start hugging each other again, or that we let our kids run wild, or that we stop cleaning our houses. I believe it was simplistic solutions that got us into this mess. I think it went something like this:
1. Our children are at risk.
2. Hands up all those people who don't want to protect our kids.
3. Good, so everyone (except bad people who don't care about our kids) wants us to take all measures to protect kids.
I don't have the answers but I am troubled by many of the 'solutions' we have now and I think we need to keep examining these things in an effort to come up with better ways. I am convinced that these are not simple problems with simple answers. If they were then they would have been solved a long time ago and clearly they have not been. Logically this must mean they are in fact, like most issues, complex and nuanced - shades of grey rather than black and white.
But I am confident that if we continue to talk together and to look for better solutions then we will eventually find them.
Camp Walden, Ontario
Quirky Canada continued
"The Pet Ramp and Staircase" - carpeted. For when your dog is too old and arthritic to jump up on your bed or sofa to shed it's fur.
A solid pine "pet crate" to lock up your pet inside the house - but this one doubles as a "very stylish end table" - seriously.
And finally - "Butter Boy" - it is like a roll-on deodorant for your corn on the cob - only you fill it with butter - what will they think of next.
Camp Tanamakoon, Ontario
Camp Wenonah
Camp Kandalore
On this day in Ontario I had decided to follow my own advice from early in the tour and put in an extra effort to stay in the moment - so that meant no furious note taking as we visited camps (I will rely on my very reliable travelling companions for information about the camps later). Instead I just tried to be present as we walked around camp and to really listen to what we were being told - thanks to Kate Strachan for her hospitality and for sharing her knowledge.
What came to me was that the best thing about the camps we were visiting was that they were committed to their mission/purpose for being in existence. They only offered activities that fitted with their mission and their main focus was on relationships - not adrenaline. There is obviously a place for adventure activities - but perhaps only if they contribute to the development of campers and build on the relationships between campers and between campers and staff - maybe only if they contribute to the mission of your camp.
They have the confidence not to provide the activities that they think campers and their parents want - but instead they provide activities that they believe are the right activities and then trust that they can convince their stakeholders that these are the activities that will lead to the best outcomes.
Maybe this is the approach we need to focus more on in Australia - and maybe the ACA can work together with members to promote this approach more - promote it to schools, to parents, to the broader community.
Camp Tawingo
To hear Jorgi talk with passion about the purpose and focus of the camp fire sessions was inspirational and I would have loved an opportunity to attend one of their Summer camp fires. Maybe another time.
It was also great to hear about the way they have set up their programs to encourage campers to choose a range of experiences. Campers progress through a number of levels by demonstrating that they have met the requirements of that level across a wide range of activities and skill levels.
I got a clear understanding of how the programs operate but also that activities are only offered if they contribute to the mission of the camp.
It was certainly inspirational for me and I am sure the rest of the group - which you can see from the photo is growing as we travel across Canada - our group now includes people form Australia, Greece, Turkey and Manitoba in Canada.
We even managed to listen to the AFL Grand Final in Australia in the wee hours via the web - congratulations Hawks, bad luck Cats.
A special thanks to Jorgi for setting that up for us.
Tim Horton's Onondaga Farms, Ontario
Friday, 26 September 2008
What is really important?
This is a memoirs of Mitch's dying college Professor Morrie. When Mitch catches up with Morrie after 16 years Morrie asks him "Have you found someone to share your heart with? Are you giving to your community? Are you at peace with yourself? Are you trying to be as human as you can be?"
Some pretty important questions for all of us.
Morrie goes on to say "dying...is only one thing to be sad over...living unhappily is something else."
Smart man Morrie.
Bye for now.
More quirkiness for sale
Then there is the 'BBQ branding iron' so you can brand your name on every steak you cook just in case your guests forget who to thank for their medium rare T-Bone.
Easter Seals Camp Horizon, Alberta
Badlands Science Camp, Alberta
Camp Valaqua, Alberta
Some of the gang can be seen left on our regular morning walk. The Autumn colours are starting to show and this has been a feature of our walks.
They have a great climbing wall as well. One section has yet to be conquered (seen left) - but as I hadn't had my morning coffee at that stage I gave it a miss - maybe next time!
In the news!
The Royal Canadian Mounties were called in and confirmed that the senior had suffered from a raccoon bite (I'm thinking the crazed raccoon on the end of her leg on or about the time the bite occurred was the giveaway).
The raccoon has not yet been located but we know the mounties always get their man so an arrest is surely imminent.
Rivers Edge Camp, Alberta
Tuesday, 23 September 2008
Quirky Canada
And a full page story from the 'Rocky Mountain Outlook' about two women friends who had just dug up a 'time capsule' they had buried 14 years previously. It seems that one night in 1994 after drinking their share of red wine they had driven out into the bush and buried a white bucket full of bits and pieces.
I think the story swings on the following quote "The women...sit around a hole in the ground, sipping champagne. Smiles beam through their tear stained faces." Powerful stuff.
And the contents of the bucket?
In order, as listed by the newspaper, a purchase slip for the plastic bucket, mouldy letters - one written in lipstick, another with a Jamaican $20 bill and a condom attached, a foul smelling cigar, pictures of young children in Halloween costumes (no not their own children), a movie listing promoting True Lies with Arnold Schwartzenegger"
They must have drunk a lot of wine.
Camp Chief Hector, Alberta
Sunday, 21 September 2008
Quirky Canada
I picked up in the ever reliable British Columbia Globe and Mail the story of a 74 year old man sent to jail for 30 months for stealing books from over 100 libraries in Alberta and the US.
Also in case you are considering a career in politics there was also a story about the things you are not allowed to call your colleagues in the Canadian Parliament - these include bag of wind, blatherskite, fuddle duddle, sleazebag (so no Paul Keating), scuzzball and weathervane - so how are you supposed to have fun?
And speaking of politics - this quote from Karl Rove when he was trying really hard not to be too critical of John McCain, who had been caught lying in an advert - "McCain has gone in some of his ads...one step too far by sort of attributing to Obama things that are, you know, beyond the 100 percent truth test". Now that is hard hitting journalism.
Bye for now.
Camp Stillwood, Lindell Beach B.C.
I loved the tree house (left). It sleeps 10 and kids on camp get an opportunity to spend a night up there. How much fun would that be!
Wednesday, 17 September 2008
Camp Thunderbird, Vancouver Island
Monday, 15 September 2008
Our first Canadian Camps
Saturday, 13 September 2008
Kids living the dream
Bears! and other distractions.
Friday, 12 September 2008
Getting to Vancouver, Canada
With the long delay at Melbourne airport before I even got started I had a lot of time to think and to get bored. As I wandered around the shops looking at all the gadgets I found myself having some internal dialogues about how useful it would be to have the latest noise reducing headphones or a 160gig iPod to listen to music or to catch up with all those interesting radio shows I miss.
Then I was reading some more of Richard Louv's book (Last Child in the Woods) and came across a pertinent quote from Edward Reed, an Associate Professor of Psychology, "There is something wrong with a society that spends so much money, as well as countless hours of human effort - to make the least dregs of processed information available to everyone everywhere and yet does little or nothing to help us explore the world for ourselves." (p64)
So instead of buying an iPod (I don't even know 40,000 songs for goodness sake), I made a decision to spend this trip, and hopefully after the trip as well, being in the moment.
Instead of putting on headphones to take me to somewhere else, I want to fully experience my surroundings here and now.
In keeping with this theme it is interesting to note the different ways people respond to flight delays. Personally I want them to take as much time as they need to make sure my plane is ready to fly. Some laugh off the delay but others demand answers and free stuff as compensation.
I also had plenty of time on the flight to read and a magazine selling stuff online on behalf of the airline caught my attention. It is amazing the stuff you can buy! For example you can buy a thing called iWear (I don't think it is sold by Apple but I think the latest marketing tool is to put an i in front of everything - maybe to piggy back off the iPhone?). This iWear is a pair of sci-fi looking glasses with built in headphones and a built in TV screen which they claim is the equivalent of a 150cm HD screen. This gadget connects 'wirelessly' (I think I just made up a word) to your portable DVD player. I hope I see someone wearing a pair of these when I have my camera handy because the guy in the advert was desperately trying to look cool, but frankly he wasn't pulling it off.
There was also a thing called "The Indoor Dog Restroom" so your dog can pee indoors. It looks like one of those synthetic grass mats you practice golf on and apparently it holds 2 gallons (8 litres) of pee - nice.
I will keep my eye out for any other interesting and quirky things to buy and report on them here.
It is time to go and have a look at Vancouver. Talk to you soon.